I know firsthand the struggle we as women face when we decide to get healthy. The cravings, the
fear of failure, the busy schedule, the extra time and effort required to turning your life around.
Do you see the beauty in the changes you have made?
I have found myself in more conversations recently, with
women talking about their health journey. I
listen to their story and I hear about their work out routines and diet changes
and I am truly excited for them.
But what resonates is often how hard they are on themselves despite these great changes. They have made life altering decisions and are taking all the right steps, but
now more than ever, they feel like failures. They talk about how weak, ugly, fat and
sometimes worthless they feel. It seems that by choosing to do things the right way, in
their mind, it only shines a brighter spotlight on their wrong things they do,
which in essence drowns out the beauty of the actual successful steps they have
taken.
Do you realize that no extraordinary journey is without
a few pit stops and getting lost once in a while?
It’s like despite the good things we do for ourselves we
often mentally consume ourselves with our weaknesses more than our wins because
anything less than perfect is devastating. We get embarrassed that we haven’t
reached our goals yet. We get frustrated that we still have cravings, don’t
feel like working out all the time and that the scale seems to only go down in
.25 lb increments. I truly hurt for women when they tell me that they had a
bite of their Grandmothers homemade pumpkin pie and now it’s ruined their
whole day. Or when they just want to cry because they’ve only
lost 1 pound in a 2 week period. It breaks my heart to see how hard they are
working yet continually feel beaten down.
I see beautiful women all around me. I see is the beauty
they possess inside and out. These women have given their lives to
friends, family and church. They are blessed with love ones, friends, jobs, an
education, a house, walking, talking, breathing, loving…. living. They wake up
every day with a new resolution to do their best for themselves and those
around them! They sweat, and grunt at the gym and invest in healthy foods
and activities for their families yet, one wrong move and they are up in arms
at their lack of self control.
Leah Mae wrote a post a while back called “Put Good In” where she talked about how to
change your diet and make it easy. In her post she says “rather than
taking the all of the unhealthy things out of your routine, put good things
in. The theory being that the reinforcement of good things, like a new
sheriff, will run the bad things right out of town.”
I have started to make these changes in my own perspective.
My goal is enjoy my wins. I want to show people what works for me and be
excited about my journey every day. I want to set new goals and keep pushing
toward them. I want to change my paradigm and the paradigm of those around me
that my successes needs to be talked about and highlighted but my
failures deserve only to be attacked and changed. Letting our weaknesses
mentally consume us only beats us down, but enjoying and sharing our
successes propels us forward on to new successes.
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